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Hi, Iām Kelly.
Establishing a therapeutic relationship requires vulnerability and trust. I want to offer my positionality in an effort to acknowledge the power, privilege, and perspective I am bringing into the therapy room using the BOLD ADDRESSING model from Roger Kuhn, PhD.
I am a perpetual student, educator, and healer with a strong desire to research, experience, and better understand relationships and the human condition. I live in a white, short-statured, athletic body on unceded Lisjan Ohlone land within a multi-family community home. I am settling into early middle age with an acquired chronic pain disability. I am a former Christian with an open-mind towards spirituality and practices of Buddhism while holding an agnostic worldview. I am an 8th generation American with family lineage predominantly from England, Scotland, Wales, Ireland, and Germany. I identify as a pansexual, gender non-binary (GNB) femme who holds non monogamous relationship structures.
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My Approach
I am open-minded, curious, and non-judgmental. No topics or experiences are "too-much" in my therapy room. I move with you at your pace and love incorporating your feedback into our sessions to curate your therapy experience. I will meet you wherever you are at each session. I embrace a "here and now" gestalt approach while incorporating evidence-based practices and tools such as the Gottman method, internal family systems (IFS), cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) processes, and dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT) skill-building to provide you a holistic and integrated path to mental wellness. I additionally provide harm-reduction integrative therapy (HRIT) for clients incorporating psychedelics in their personal healing journey.
I am kink-affirming, queer-affirming, and non-monogamy-affirming. Your full, unique, expressive self is welcome here!
Credentials and Experience
Masters in Counseling Psychology, Golden Gate University
Sex Therapist Certification, Sexual Health Alliance
Sexuality Coach & Consultant Certification, Sexual Health Alliance
Gottman Couples Therapist, Level 1 Training
Year-long Traineeship, Pacific Center for Human Growth
Crisis Center Volunteer, The Trevor Project
Psychedelic Peer Support Sitter, Zendo Project