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Consent and safety philosophies in kink
Sex & Intimacy Kelly Howard 7/27/26 Sex & Intimacy Kelly Howard 7/27/26

Consent and safety philosophies in kink

The kink and BDSM community has developed some of the most thoughtful consent frameworks of any sexual community. Here's what they are, where they come from, and what they mean in practice.

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Does kink come from trauma?
Sex & Intimacy Kelly Howard 5/15/26 Sex & Intimacy Kelly Howard 5/15/26

Does kink come from trauma?

The idea that BDSM and kink interests are symptoms of trauma is one of the most persistent myths in popular psychology. The data tells a very different story.

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What is responsive desire?
Sex & Intimacy Kelly Howard 1/2/26 Sex & Intimacy Kelly Howard 1/2/26

What is responsive desire?

If you've ever wondered why your interest in sex seems to disappear until you're already in the middle of it, you're not broken. You might just have responsive desire — and it's more common than you think.

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Kelly Howard is a Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist #144916 Supervised by Sam Pow, LCSW #88131

Practicing through the auspices of Center for Mindful Psychotherapy, a non profit organization providing psychotherapy to individuals, couples, & families throughout the Greater Bay Area and the State of California.